Status Update – November 25, 2015

Email from Stephanie with court document attached; mom dropping ball; happy for us and kids; sad for mom especially since it’s the holiday season. Left work/picked up kids early. Played outside. They’re excited it’s Thanksgiving; excited my family is coming; even so, bed on time.

Status Update – November 24, 2015

Worked over hoping to leave earlier tomorrow; picked kids up later than usual, they didn’t notice. Ashley scraped knee/belly at daycare. She’s not hurt but milking it; limping and acting like she’s dying; it’s hilarious! Slow evening; ate supper, kids’ baths, watched TV, bedtime.

Status Update – November 22, 2015

Church. Lunch, naps, and snacks. Kids played “Chutes and Ladders” with Lesa. Afterwards they made Play-Doh pizzas, but mostly made a mess. I cooked Ashley’s favorite – pancakes; and made waffles for Dillan. Watched “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” and then put little kids to bed.

Status Update – November 20, 2015

Stephanie fallout: Ashley woke up crying 4 times, bad dreams of people taking her away; Dillan peed pants in bedroom just 5-10 feet away from toilet; Ashley and Dillan separated from each other / other kids at daycare for fighting. Both Ashley and Dillan did terrific on midterms!

Status Update – November 19, 2015

Coughing hard; had hours-long nose bleed at work and home. Stephanie, DCS Caseworker, visited to discuss termination. Judge ready but case law says relatives get a chance and they’re going to take it. At least two more hearings. No change in status, visits, etc. Needs to be over!

Status Update – November 18, 2015

Rushed home from work, picked up kids, and headed to C3 for the Thanksgiving dinner. Ate with Paul and Andrea. Several people wanted to help load plates etc. We are blessed with so many friends. After dessert we pretty much headed straight home and got the kids into bed. Success!

Status Update – November 17, 2015

Took Bruce to doctor’s first thing this morning to try and treat his dermatitis; then went to CVS for cream and medication. Much better day today than yesterday! Lesa steeled and prepared herself for the abuse from kids. Dillan ungrounded from watching TV so that probably helped.

Status Update – November 16, 2015

Hard day! Stephanie emailed; said more hearings; paperwork errors! Dillan practiced for Scouts; den master not there; Dillan still had good time. Got home, Lesa at wits’ end. Bruce kicked her in face while changing his diaper. Lesa’s day ended doubting self, frustrated, in tears.